That wonky nose.
Those twinkly eyes.
That smile that quirks up one side of his mouth.
The warmth of his body as you throw your arms around him and he wraps his coat around both of you.
The rough calluses of his hand as you squeeze gently, reminding him how much you love.
You don’t need a slick sales video to remember why you want to fall in love in so much.
You just need your mind’s eye. All those wonderful things you yearn for:
His generosity when you’re ill.
His support when you’re upset.
A cuddle on the sofa after a hard day.
And why didn’t you meet him sooner? Why did you waste so much of your life with the wrong guys?
It’s what we all want. It’s what we all deserve.
My name is Amy Waterman, and I’ve been talking about this stuff for over a decade now.
Back then, I wanted to be Carrie Bradshaw. But over the years I found myself turning into Murphy Brown. A bit sharper tongue. A bit more committed to facts.
It’s hard to stay idealistic about love when you see what’s out there.
It’s hard anyway.
And there are a lot of magic bullets people are promising. You’ve seen the book covers. You’ve heard the experts. Everyone has advice. Everyone knows what you should do
But no one has Love to hand you on a platter.
No one else can attract a man for you. You’re alone in this.
None of the books in the world can change the fact that you’re the one who has to find someone you actually like and convince him you’re worth a shot.
I’m going to talk to you in a moment about my book - the one I think holds the answer to the mysteries of the universe ;-) but first I want you to know that what you’re going through is unprecendented in human history.
A quick glance on Tinder or PlentyOfFish would make you believe that there are hundreds, even thousands of options out there. But it’s like going into a huge department store and finding nothing you want to buy.
Just because there are guys out there…
Doesn’t mean there are guys YOU like.
Besides, fully one third of online profiles belong to folks who are just browsing. They’ve never gone on an actual date with anyone they met online. Maybe they don’t even intend to. And you’re wasting your time considering them candidates for your heart.
Everyone is talking about “hanging out” and “seeing where it leads,” like you’re not already trying to squeeze blood from a turnip by hoping for an actual dinner in an actual restaurant.
Seriously? Love is not a video game, guys. There are real consequences to playing the dating game. You don’t just get to press a button and start over.
Girls, they’ve got you.
You’ve been had.
Dating advice is skewed towards believing you’re the one who has to get the guy. As if he doesn’t have to do anything. He doesn’t have to lift a finger. You’re the one who’s supposed to display her wares and hope he picks you. Like you don’t already have enough work to do!
All the stuff you’re supposed to do to "bag a guy"…
All the stuff you read on articles online, in women’s magazines, on bestselling books by smug marrieds…
The human race wouldn’t have continued this long if it weren’t natural for men and women to fall in love and form families. Our ancestors didn’t need dating experts to tell them how to do it.
Is it possible that love is actually a lot easier than we’ve been told?
I had to step in.
I’ve been writing about dating and relationship issues for so long that it hurts to see the kind of advice out there. “It’s for your own good, ladies.” But is it?
If someone tells you what to do to get a guy, then you’re going to do it, right? Anything for a shot at a lifetime of happiness.
But maybe what they’re telling you makes you feel inadequate.
As if dating is like applying for a dozen jobs in hopes of getting one interview. And you have to be on top form to score the job. If you slip up and show you’re human, you’ll be laughed out the door.
I can't help but groan. Nothing could be further from the truth.
So I wrote my own book.
One that distilled a decade of observing, thinking, and writing about dating and relationships.
I’ll be honest: I love this book. I wish every woman had it.
Because you ARE beautiful. You ARE wonderful. You are kind and good and sweet.
You don’t need to be told you’re not pretty enough, not wearing the right clothes, not making the right kind of small talk, or not sending off the right signals.
We need to stop talking about our own perceived inadequacies, as if there’s something wrong with us because a man hasn’t chosen us yet.
We need to start talking about love. About radiating love. About being love.
Because who you are inside is the root of everything that’s happening to you with men.
It’s not your looks.
It’s not what happened to you in the past.
It’s how you feel about yourself, who you are, and what you deserve.
I'm going to give you a complete makeover. A Mind Makeover.
Mind Makeover: How Inner Game Gets the Guy is unlike most dating advice books out there. Because it's not about what you should do or say or look like to get the guy.
It's about how to be.
It's about how to use who you are to crack open new possibilities for yourself.
Imagine what it will feel like when you...
|Give off the kind of good energy men crave. It's like wearing an irresistible perfume that men can't resist!|
|Regain your sense of personal power around men, even the ones that leave you weak at the knees. Men love strong women, and you'll be fearless!|
|Feel in control, desirable, confident, and the star of your own romantic destiny. You'll also learn to avoid the bad vibes that put men off or make them see you as "just" a friend.|
|Weed out the flakes, jerks, and playboys in favor of a quality man who loves you for who you are.|
|Master the art of first impressions. Learn to convey the "right" messages to men and correct any "wrong" messages you may have been sending.|
|Try the ultimate "beauty cream." You'll look younger, more radiant, and simply stunning if you make this a priority in your life.|
|Say goodbye to nerves or anxiety in social situations. You don't have to work at making men like you, because this simple technique will have them looking for any excuse to meet you.|
|Feel great about yourself, even if you don't like your looks or the way your life is going right now. Beating up on yourself never helps, and I'll help you banish that critical voice for good.|
|Get excited about your love life! Worrying won't help you meet someone, but it's a difficult habit to give up. Luckily, I'll teach you how to "reprogram" those old fears.|
|De-code the secret signals that tell you, beyond the shadow of a doubt, whether or not you should pursue a relationship.|
|What every man wishes you'd understand about him. If you can grasp this, you won't be disappointed in men again - and you'll make his life much happier!|
|Know when to trust your feelings and when to be wary. Sometimes, our own feelings can betray us by convincing us that a man is "The One" when he's really just a heart-breaker. Learn to listen to your heart's messages wisely.|
|Deal with rejection or break-ups without getting hurt. This simple perspective switch will have you moving on painlessly and smiling at life again before you know it.|
|Discover the truth about bed buddies, bad boys, and playing hard to get.|
|Tackle the emotional baggage that you've accumulated over years of heartbreak. Don't let old wounds sabotage your new relationships!|
|Find new energy to motivate you in your search for love. If you're tired, fed up, or just plain frustrated with the dating game, then this simple technique will get you back on track and loving it!|
|Never worry about what's going to happen to you or whether you're going to finally meet your soulmate ever again.|
I'm the author/co-author of ten books with dating advice giants 000Relationships.com and MeetYourSweet.com. I've written endless articles about men, attraction, dating, sexual chemistry and marriage for publication across the web. Learn more about my other books.
You can even look me up on Facebook, where I share inspirational quotes, news, links and thoughts about dating and relationships.
Or you can listen to what others say...
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Mind Makever: How Inner Game Gets the Guy is an e-book (PDF format), and it is only available online from this website.
It's a digital download package, which means you can be opening my e-book on your computer/mobile device and starting my program within minutes. It's easy, and it's safe. All sales are handled through Clickbank, the internet's largest digital products retailer.
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When you purchase my e-book, you've got an incredible opportunity ahead of you. If you commit to the principles I teach, and take the time to understand the Four Pillars and seriously ask yourself the questions in my book, then I know you will see a huge transformation in your life.
But everyone is different, and that's why I want to offer a complete satisfaction guarantee. If you've given my program your best shot and it's not what you wanted or expected, then you can contact me within 8 weeks of your purchase, and I'll give you a FULL refund. That's all there is to it. There's a contact link at the bottom of this page.
And anyone who tells you you have to change to get a guy should be laughed out of town.
Here's to laughing!
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You'll also receive an incredible tool to supercharge your confidence and help you achieve any goal. It works solely through the power of the mind, and it's called Affirmations.
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You'll also get a Q&A with me where I tackle the real issues behind various reader questions.
It's fun, irreverent, and the perfect mini-book to browse through on a coffee break. You'll discover why worrying doesn’t solve any problems, why trying too hard to be sexy can backfire, how attraction works, the easiest way to make a man happy, how to know if he’s “The One,” and some thoughts to consider on your wedding day.
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